Fitness Games For Kids

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Part 2 How and when to end your marriage?

I spent 3 mos working the 3 jobs, he didn’t lift a finger in the house cook or clean and things have never been worse. My husband and teen boys don’t think they need to pick up, are disrespectful to me and he can’t see the damage this is doing to his children, only to say that it is my fault that things are this way. Husband has always had an excuse and will twist the truth. I am moving forward in my business and also promoting the fitness ctr. I will take care of my kids but I have no $$ for a cleaning person, I think it would send the wrong message to my kids if I did. Therefore I have let the house work suffer, some nights don’t sleep trying to work on it, and my husband refuses to help, or get the kids to, has managed to twist the truth many times, trying to make me feel guilty or to blame. Yet will accuse me of playing games with him and has told my daughter that I manipulate their relationship. This is more harmful to my kids and I just don’t know how to fix anymore.

I am nearly a master at twisting words not through trying but simply by convincing myself of things. Its one of my worst habits and is very harmful to adults not to metnion kids as in this situation. Your children will hear things and watch as your hubby pulls what he want to hear from the convo and then uses it against you out of context. They will learn this behavior and see that even if their position is wrong they can confuse and agiate the other party to the point where they are easily persuaded.

Chances are he does this b/c of a defensive mechanism and by not listening 100% to what you are trying to communicate. You may say “apples are red” but he may hear “oranges cant be red because apples are”.

I am married and make the money in the house but I also take care of our son while my wife goes to school. My schedule allows me to be home all week usually so I cook, clean, wash clothes and do all that yummy housework while watching the wild 7month old.

Your husband should be supporting you either thru chores, financially or by some other means you two have worked out. If he works 12 hours a day or somethign that might be different but even still he should help where he can even if its just getting the kids to pitch in. They should also be helping but with dad not doing it, all you prolly here are “dad said I didnt have too” or “dad doesnt have to do anything”.

The problems seem to stem from hubby so if you wish to try and modify his attitude the others may fall in place but that may require much effort. You deserve to have support around you and to have a “what can i do” attitude rather than play any blame games. Counseling may help but he would have to really be open and understand this is the final stages and is for real and not just a joke.

This is from a male and to me he sounds like he need to grow a pair and take care of his wife and family. Its his job to help you and your family succeed and if he isnt doing it then he is just a freeloading roomate.

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